Wakey! Wakey!! Time to wake up from your slumber ladies!!!

Ok, am really tired of ladies lamenting on how or what their "Mr Right" should possess or what he should look like. It’s amazing how ladies are still missing it in this modern day and age.

First and foremost, you only attract who you are and not what you want. We should be more concerned about making ourselves better people and not the qualities a guy should possess. Pls when i mean making ourselves better, i don’t mean test driving many waters; i mean equipping yourself with the right qualities of “MRS. RIGHT.

We feel we deserve the best guy, the question we should ask ourselves is: am i worth it? do i deserve him? does he deserve me or would it be more appropriate if he was with someone better than you?

Ladies we need to open our eyes and see beyond the 3 P’s – The Past, The present and The physical (you can change the THEs TO HIS). What exactly do you look for in a guy? How do you know he’s the one or do you just go for anything that present itself as good?

Recently i came across an article, where the writer asked" if you would be willing to date yourself, meaning someone exactly the way you are", with the same bad and good habits.

You should be a woman who is ready and able to help her man be the person he wants to be. Probably if we try asking people around us to tell us the good and bad things about us, maybe it will give us a better idea of the kind of guy to expect.

Don’t you think it will be unfair if you get what you don’t deserve? The yorubas will call people like you oloju kokoro!!!

The question every lady need to ask herself is, are you suitable for him? do you bring out the best in him? are we comparable? do you have goals and ambitions? can you grow with him? And will you grow with him?

Strength and dignity should be your watch-word, are you of noble character? are you worth far more than rubies?

Are you confident? Do you have a good heart? Are you compassionate? Do people honour you for all you do? Can they praise you for your good works or you are the type that loves gossip, embarrassing moments and takes delights in evil things. Are you wise? Are you faithful and can you submit?.

The bible says he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing and “OBTAINETH” favour from the Lord but now it’s the other way round, we want him to come loaded with all the good things, in fact more than the good things + favour, + riches + 6 pack – 2 pack + physical attraction and many more.

The bible says the woman is a helper, meaning you are meant to come well equipped as well in order to play your role as a helper effectively well. But now, we want the guy to be MR. RIGHT, come with his own favour and good things, so we don’t have to do anything.

Everyone wants the right mate, we are all waiting for "THE ONE", while not work and equip yourself to be the right man or woman for the one God is preparing for you. If you are a queen material you have to marry a King material, same goes to the men.

 

In short singles, prepare to recieve yourself with your good, bad and ughly sides lol....  anyways there's room for you to better yourself to avoid the risk of living with your ughly and bad self.

Cheers.

 

Contributed by: Dami Ajayi for Dames Bridals.